Monday, 27 July 2015

Things that matters in Life - DECISION

Somebody says "Decision to some extent determine Destiny".
You are a product of decision. Whatever you are today is a product of the decision you made yesterday and what you will become tomorrow will be a function of the decision you will take today.

To enjoy your relationship/marriage, you must make right decisions that will birth forth those things you desire in your relationship/marriage.


1. Decision to serve God better: One of the wisest decision to make in life is deciding to serve God better and work more on your relationship with God. Pray better, Study your bible better, spend quality time with God. Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man." (Ecclesiastes 12:13).

2. Decision to be the Right Person: For the Singles who have been trusting God for suitors, you need to become the right person. One of the reasons you are still single may be because you are not yet the right person. To get the right partner for marriage, you must become the right person. Stop living a false life, stop pretending to be who you are not. Stop all the bad habit of smoking, drinking, clubbing etc. Start working on yourself, your career, your character, your gifts and talents. Start living a life of dignity and value. Add value to yourself and live your life for God.

3. Decision to be Faithful: Peradventure you are into double dealing in a bid to enjoy life, you need to stop it because you are not enjoying life you are only destroying it. Cut-off from every double dealing and extra marital affair you've been having. Be faithful to your man/woman.

4. Decision of Commitment: Measure your level of commitment to your relationship/marriage and improve on your commitment. Give your relationship/marriage the best of your time and resources. Be committed financially, be committed in prayers and be committed to personal development.

I pray that the Lord will perfect all that concerns your marital life in Jesus name.

Mega Shalom!

Thursday, 2 April 2015

Godly Relationship; A Spirit-Guided Relationship

Relationship is God's idea and God is so much interested in our relationship and in the success of our relationship.

If i were to ask you "your definition of a godly relationship" Am sure your answer would have been that "a godly relationship is the one that exist between a Christian brother and sister after knowing they are both the will of God for each other"

As good as the answer is,  it is not totally correct; a godly relationship is a spirit-guided relationship. It is not just about being the will of God or a Christian,  it is about allowing God to be at the center of the relationship.

There are many people who claim to be a in godly relationship probably because they are Christians or because God led them to start the relationship. But it is not just being in a relationship with a Christian brother/sister that makes your relationship godly neither is it because God led you into the relationship. Though a godly relationship start with knowing God's will and accepting it but it does not end there.

A godly relationship is a Spirit-Guided Relationship; a relationship that every of the activities in it are guided by the Holy Spirit, a relationship that glorify God.

Rom 8:14 says "For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God".

Who is leading you in your relationship? Is it your feelings/flesh or the Spirit of God?

If you still kiss and do all sort of immorality in your relationship, you are not in a godly relationship; the Holy Spirit will not lead you to kiss a brother or sister you are in relationship with. What can lead you to do that is the flesh and the flesh is an enemy of God. The flesh produces sexual immorality, anger, malice and selfish ambition. The

Saturday, 28 March 2015


[Gen 2:18] And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I WILL  make him an help meet for him.

I sometimes feel bad when I see people start a relationship or make a marital decision based on their feelings, outward appearance/attraction, or the number of years they've been friends.

Relationship/Marriage is not just a status or an event; it is a continuation of God's plan for your life. Your relationship/marriage has a link to destiny or its part of destiny. So when making this decision of whom to marry, you must ensure you consult God in prayer and have a strong conviction so that you don't make a mistake. You need to be sensitive and always be in tune with God so that He can direct you and show you HIS WILL.

Just like Mary was discerning/sensitive

Tuesday, 17 March 2015


"While the earth remaineth, seedtime and harvest shall not cease." (Genesis 8:22).

There are laws and principles that governs life. One of such laws is the law of sowing and reaping. For every harvest, there is a seed to sow.

People who are enjoying and harvesting good fruits in their marriage are people who had sowed right seeds during their courtship.

To enjoy your marriage and be happy, you must be willing to sow the right seeds.

Nothing good happen by chance. It must be consciously,deliberately and adequately prepared for.

Courtship is a time to consciously sow right seeds if you must enjoy your marriage.

Right Seeds to sow are :
1. Prayer: Courtship time is a time to pray.  pray for your marriage, your children and family. It is a time to team up with your fiancĂ©/fiancĂ©e and prophesy positive things into your