Somebody says "Decision to some extent determine Destiny".
You are a product of decision. Whatever you are today is a product of the decision you made yesterday and what you will become tomorrow will be a function of the decision you will take today.
To enjoy your relationship/marriage, you must make right decisions that will birth forth those things you desire in your relationship/marriage.
RIGHT DECISIONS TO MAKE.
1. Decision to serve God better: One of the wisest decision to make in life is deciding to serve God better and work more on your relationship with God. Pray better, Study your bible better, spend quality time with God. Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man." (Ecclesiastes 12:13).
2. Decision to be the Right Person: For the Singles who have been trusting God for suitors, you need to become the right person. One of the reasons you are still single may be because you are not yet the right person. To get the right partner for marriage, you must become the right person. Stop living a false life, stop pretending to be who you are not. Stop all the bad habit of smoking, drinking, clubbing etc. Start working on yourself, your career, your character, your gifts and talents. Start living a life of dignity and value. Add value to yourself and live your life for God.
3. Decision to be Faithful: Peradventure you are into double dealing in a bid to enjoy life, you need to stop it because you are not enjoying life you are only destroying it. Cut-off from every double dealing and extra marital affair you've been having. Be faithful to your man/woman.
4. Decision of Commitment: Measure your level of commitment to your relationship/marriage and improve on your commitment. Give your relationship/marriage the best of your time and resources. Be committed financially, be committed in prayers and be committed to personal development.
I pray that the Lord will perfect all that concerns your marital life in Jesus name.