Friday 22 November 2013

WHY HE WILL MARRY YOU


Most men who are willing to get married just want a happy and easy going woman who possesses good values and virtues of a good wife. 

The following would enlighten ladies on why that right man would marry you.


  • Get God Early: Every man desire to have a godly woman as a wife and that's why most men wouldn't mind joining a church just to get a good wife. You need to get God early enough so you won't be stranded in life especially when you are ripe for marriage.
  • Don’t Be Bossy: When a man first meets you and know your character trait is okay, he starts feeling he is safe to propose and walk down d aisle with him. However, once he starts to feel like he is in a grammar school being told what to do by his teacher, he will take a walk simply because no man wants to be ruled by d subordinate (women).
  • Don't Play Games with his Heart: Never ever think that being a game player will help you get a man. Though he might be intrigued by a hard -to -get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in you, all he wants is an honest straight –shooter.
  • Don’t Force him to Change: Some women claim to love a man 'just the way he is' but little by little, they want to change everything about him. First it’s his wardrobe then his taste in music. Never attempt to change his hobbies. If there are any you're not comfortable with, you can talk it out with him in love rather than compelling him to change it.
  • Don’t be too clingy: As a lady, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. At first he is overwhelmed that you are so much in love with him and wants to be around him always but with time when you are becoming too clingy, he tends to be suffocated by you.
  • Don't get jealous: Everyone tends to be jealous but once it gets to the extreme it sends a wrong signal tagged "DISTRUSTING" No man wants to have a wife that can't trust him or keep prosecuting him for one thing or the other.
  • Don't be Tied to your Mother's Apron: A man is much more comfortable with you when he realises you don't call on your mother always to make a decision on your affair with him. he gets scared the more when you cannot do without getting her opinion on everything *NOTE: As a grown up lady getting ready to be married, there are times you need to think for and by yourself because once you're married, your mum won't follow you to your husband's house to take decisions for you
  • Don’t talk about others always: Most guys are turned off when you always love to gossip and talk about other people, not only that, when you love to hear things about other people as well. at first, it could entertain him but eventually he wonders what you are saying when he is not around. You make him more uncomfortable when you discuss your ex with him always.
  • Appreciate his Mother/ Siblings: Never make negative comments about your would-be mother -in -law, let him know his mother is special. His siblings? Show love to even the nastiest of them all.
  •  Be yourself: You don't have to be everyone else! A lady who is constantly talking about what other people do and what they have places a lot of pressure on her man. Be yourself, live your size per time and shun pretence.

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