DON'T ASSUME YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP

My precious single friends, it's great to write you today again. I felt I should share this truth with you about Love.

When I was in 300L(3rd year) in the University, there is this female friend of mine who happened to be one of the closest friend I had. We were so close that we gist a lot, she shares her personal issues with me and am always excited communicating with her. Infact she became my study mate and we go to night class together to read because the female hostel where she stays was just adjacent the male hostel I was staying. Studying together was of immense benefit to us and it helped us to encourage ourselves to study even if we

Long Distance Relationship; How To Make It Work.

 I’ve decided to give you some keys to making your long distance relationship work.

1: Trust: This is very important for any relationship to thrive. You must trust each other.  Don't even think of starting a relationship with someone you don't trust.  So build trust by being open. Don't hide things or act suspicious.

2: Daily Communication: Communication is another survival tool that will help your relationship to thrive. Just find a means of communicating on the phone everyday. It could just be a 1min call to hear each other's voice and also utilise other means of communication (bbm, whatsapp, text,fb etc). But don't let your communicating via the social media hinder putting a call through to him/her. You can also maximise the use of video chats like skype. Communicating daily brings your mind together and helps sustain the feeling you have for each other.

IT'S BETTER TO PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE THAN TO REPAIR YOUR MARRIAGE.

 My precious single friends, it's good to write you again.
 
After bible study service on one Wednesday, I had a chat with my pastor and in the course of the chat he made this profound statement "I'D RATHER PREPARE THAN REPAIR" and I was like 'Hmmmm'. The statement really got me and I started meditating on it. The statement is for every area of life but when I got home that evening, the issue of marriage pop up in me as regards the statement and I said to myself 'I'd rather prepare for marriage than repair my marriage'.

Marriage is not a wedding ceremony that you can start preparing for few weeks/months to the date. For you to succeed in marriage you must start preparing for it early enough. My desire is to see marriages succeed and godly families raised especially in this our generation.

MOVE ON

Philippians 3:13-14

It's time to LET GO of that hurt and release that pain. Your tears have served the ground for far too long. It's time to practice that smile daily, and it's time for you to LET GO of the things that are stripping your heart of its happiness. You can't HEAL by going back to the hurt, and you can't receive your future by holding on to your past. You have to learn how to stop pressing reply on the things that need to be deleted from your life. Stop getting upset with God for not closing a door that YOU choose to keep opened. You can't get your life together by staying involved with the things that are tearing your life apart. Why complain about a situation or Relationship that you aren't willing to change. Sometimes we can't control getting hurt, I understand that, but rehearsing the same pain is always a choice. Driving down the same road that led you no where, IS A CHOICE. Living that same lifestyle that led you to heart break, IS A CHOICE. Giving your trust back those who have abused it, IS A CHOICE. You might not be in control of what they give you, but you're always in control of what you accept. Don't live life hurt, you're too strong for that.
Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it. It's time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that don't deserve you.

Do have a great weekend.

~Mr TEA~
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