SUITABILITY VS COMPATIBILITY

The word compatibility is often used by people when it comes to relationship and also the word suitability from the root word “suitable” gotten from the scripture Gen 2:18 where God said He will make a help meet (suitable) for Adam.

The English dictionary defines the two words as follows:

SUITABILITY: The word “suitable” means being right or appropriate for a particular purpose or occasion.

 COMPATIBILITY: The ability of people or things to live or exist together without problems.

There have been a lot of mix up between these two words and there are many relationships that are not working or breaking up because of this mix up. You hear people say we are not compatible and cannot marry and things like that.

From Gen 2:18, God was much more interested in the suitability of the man and woman. God is more interested in somebody that is right for you and not just somebody you can live with. What makes you

10 WISDOM FOR SINGLES

1. Your relationship with God is number one. Know God before you know the other person. Don't start a relationship until you have a personal relationship with God.

2. Never fail to pray before proposing or accepting a proposal. Don't be in a hurry to get married. If you rush in, you may rush out with a lot of injuries!

3. Discover Your Purpose before starting a relationship. Discovering your purpose early enough will help whoever lady God is bringing into your life to fit into such purpose and also prepare herself for the purpose(Remember she's meant to be a help suitable for you, Gen 2:18). Starting a relationship without discovering your purpose is like boarding a bus without knowing your destination.

4. Ladies, Marry A Man that has a VISION not just a TELEVISION!!

His VISION will surely produce many Televisions tomorrow and probably even put you on television to show the world how much he loves you ♥♥

DON'T ASSUME YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP

My precious single friends, it's great to write you today again. I felt I should share this truth with you about Love.

When I was in 300L(3rd year) in the University, there is this female friend of mine who happened to be one of the closest friend I had. We were so close that we gist a lot, she shares her personal issues with me and am always excited communicating with her. Infact she became my study mate and we go to night class together to read because the female hostel where she stays was just adjacent the male hostel I was staying. Studying together was of immense benefit to us and it helped us to encourage ourselves to study even if we

Long Distance Relationship; How To Make It Work.

 I’ve decided to give you some keys to making your long distance relationship work.

1: Trust: This is very important for any relationship to thrive. You must trust each other.  Don't even think of starting a relationship with someone you don't trust.  So build trust by being open. Don't hide things or act suspicious.

2: Daily Communication: Communication is another survival tool that will help your relationship to thrive. Just find a means of communicating on the phone everyday. It could just be a 1min call to hear each other's voice and also utilise other means of communication (bbm, whatsapp, text,fb etc). But don't let your communicating via the social media hinder putting a call through to him/her. You can also maximise the use of video chats like skype. Communicating daily brings your mind together and helps sustain the feeling you have for each other.