Things that matters in Life - DECISION

Somebody says "Decision to some extent determine Destiny".
You are a product of decision. Whatever you are today is a product of the decision you made yesterday and what you will become tomorrow will be a function of the decision you will take today.

To enjoy your relationship/marriage, you must make right decisions that will birth forth those things you desire in your relationship/marriage.

RIGHT DECISIONS TO MAKE.

1. Decision to serve God better: One of the wisest decision to make in life is deciding to serve God better and work more on your relationship with God. Pray better, Study your bible better, spend quality time with God. Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man." (Ecclesiastes 12:13).

2. Decision to be the Right Person: For the Singles who have been trusting God for suitors, you need to become the right person. One of the reasons you are still single may be because you are not yet the right person. To get the right partner for marriage, you must become the right person. Stop living a false life, stop pretending to be who you are not. Stop all the bad habit of smoking, drinking, clubbing etc. Start working on yourself, your career, your character, your gifts and talents. Start living a life of dignity and value. Add value to yourself and live your life for God.

3. Decision to be Faithful: Peradventure you are into double dealing in a bid to enjoy life, you need to stop it because you are not enjoying life you are only destroying it. Cut-off from every double dealing and extra marital affair you've been having. Be faithful to your man/woman.

4. Decision of Commitment: Measure your level of commitment to your relationship/marriage and improve on your commitment. Give your relationship/marriage the best of your time and resources. Be committed financially, be committed in prayers and be committed to personal development.

I pray that the Lord will perfect all that concerns your marital life in Jesus name.

Mega Shalom!

Godly Relationship; A Spirit-Guided Relationship

Relationship is God's idea and God is so much interested in our relationship and in the success of our relationship.

If i were to ask you "your definition of a godly relationship" Am sure your answer would have been that "a godly relationship is the one that exist between a Christian brother and sister after knowing they are both the will of God for each other"

As good as the answer is,  it is not totally correct; a godly relationship is a spirit-guided relationship. It is not just about being the will of God or a Christian,  it is about allowing God to be at the center of the relationship.

There are many people who claim to be a in godly relationship probably because they are Christians or because God led them to start the relationship. But it is not just being in a relationship with a Christian brother/sister that makes your relationship godly neither is it because God led you into the relationship. Though a godly relationship start with knowing God's will and accepting it but it does not end there.

A godly relationship is a Spirit-Guided Relationship; a relationship that every of the activities in it are guided by the Holy Spirit, a relationship that glorify God.

Rom 8:14 says "For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God".

Who is leading you in your relationship? Is it your feelings/flesh or the Spirit of God?

If you still kiss and do all sort of immorality in your relationship, you are not in a godly relationship; the Holy Spirit will not lead you to kiss a brother or sister you are in relationship with. What can lead you to do that is the flesh and the flesh is an enemy of God. The flesh produces sexual immorality, anger, malice and selfish ambition. The